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Date: 2012-08-29 04:14 pm (UTC)But it's not just me. It's me starting off positive, falling apart, then whining in a fairly public space to those who understand - which gets me support and lets me feel better for ranting, and then slowly eking out words until suddenly I'm back on the horse without realising it :D
It's having a support system, knowing it's ok to fall apart sometimes, and having learnt it's okay to do 'not my best work' when I have to - these are really important things that are still fairly new to me. You and everyone else commenting here make the process easier to bear and work through. HUGS.