I don't know this fandom, but it's helpful to have this kind of an example when explaining.

Thank you for doing these posts every year. They're always informative and helpful to me, both to understand others and to understand myself a little better. I say I'm bi because it's simpler for me to think about that way, but when I look at the charts and think about it, I think I'm more often sexually attracted to women, but only demi or grey with men. Since I ended up married to a man, it seems like it doesn't matter much and I haven't really told him. But I'm definitely in the don't initiate much and doesn't really occur to me category. Romantic yes, but sexual attraction more rarely.

I don't really think I realized this about myself before you started doing these posts, but it fits and makes parts of my life/emotions make sense. I just thought I wasn't boy crazy like everyone else because I liked girls too, but I'm slowly realizing it's different from being bi too.

So thanks, for being so open about such things. You've helped me in doing so.