Yes that was it exactly. I wouldn't have had a larger ceremony at all if my family wouldn't have fussed about it. We invited the bare minimum of people we could get away with, and had a party afterwards at the pub where we got engaged. Yes I got engaged at a pub/ But in the end, I loved our wedding. Married at the zoo with tigers and children with balloons as witnesses = perfect.

Here's a picture, because I find I want to show you: