Of course, our very Christian relatives were scandalized, but they couldn't ruin it for us. They still lament it though, why we couldn't just get married in a church by a priest like normal people.

And I'm just like... I've never done anything else how you expected/wanted me to, so I should start now because?

You should have seen my grandmother's face though, at the part of the vows that goes: "Yours is the face I will greet in the day, and yours is the name I will scream in the night."